Marriage Reboot
A Breakthrough Program for your Marriage –
A time and cost-effective program
Involvement of both partners is not compulsory
The results will last you a lifetime
Bi-monthly live sessions to provide clarity and support
that works better than therapy!
All marriages go through cycles
The euphoria of love fades after a few years and what you once found cute, now drives you nuts
People and activities outside the marriage start to become more attractive
At some point, one or both of you start wondering
“Did I marry the right person?”
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Now you’re wondering
Can I save my marriage?
Will the earlier level of passion, love and tenderness return?
How can I reclaim love and happiness in my marriage?
My spouse is so uncooperative – can I do this by myself?
My husband and I are in an amazing space right now and have been for a while. But it could have easily been otherwise…
You see, very early on in our marriage I had a miscarriage – my first, highly anticipated pregnancy! And this almost tore us apart… As if our own emotions weren’t difficult to deal with, we had to contend with toxic ‘in-laws dynamics’.
I drew on all my knowledge and theory as a psychologist and tried various ways to try and bridge the growing gap. But nothing worked…
If anything, we became more combative and distant…
In frustration, I decided to do something different. Something I hadn’t read in any textbook or self- help guide.
I decided to set aside our problems. Not ignore them, not pretend they didn’t exist, but just put them on the back burner for a while…
What if I told you that my marriage was almost destroyed?!
…I dropped all major expectations of what we should do or how we should be.
I took a step back from trying to force communication and gave my husband his space. I made small meaningful gestures without expecting anything in return.
And as if by magic our situation changed! My husband started reciprocating. He felt less threatened and grew calmer and more affectionate. We began connecting again – laughing and talking and sharing.
Most importantly, we were able to openly discuss the hurt and sadness we went through, resolve our differences and fall in love again!
What I did instead…
I was trying so hard to save my marriage
But none of the ‘wisdom’ out there did me any good. None of advice in self-help books worked. Nothing that I read or researched helped.
Moreover, there was no one to support or guide me as I struggled through this. I had to figure it out on my own. I had to find a way to make it work.
I had to combine my instinct with my intuition and draw on my knowledge to bring my husband and myself closer together.
To now help struggling marriages, I’ve put together a program
To help you reconnect with your spouse
To help you bring back love in your marriage
Unlike therapy, which may or may not work, this program is time and cost effective. The best part is that you can do it on your own – you don’t need a cooperative spouse to successfully complete this program. Chances are, they’ll join you once they see the changes and realize the benefits.
A word of caution though! This is NOT a quick-fix program. If my experience is anything to go by, you’re going to need a lot of patience and put in real time and effort to completely sort out the mess.
But what you will learn is to neutralize your problems, put into practice a system of relationship habits and restore your broken marriage.
You’re just one ‘YES’ away from a happy marriage!
These are the steps I take you through
Program Content
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Introduction:
I talk you through how to use this program effectively, how to get the most out of it, how to set intentions and most importantly,
how to stick with it through the enveloping conflict and negativity
Module 2: When your Spouse is not on the Same Page as You
This feels distressing and disheartening, especially when you think of all the special, and happier times you shared together.
You will learn to let go of the stress this brings and will be better able to deal with the conflict.
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Module 3: How to Rebuild Trust
Relationships crumble when trust is lost. Rebuilding trust is difficult but not impossible. Through this module you will learn
how to start this important and essential exercise. This will help you reinstate the foundations of your marriage.
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Module 4: Commit to your Marriage
It’s easy to be overwhelmed by unhappiness and to look outside of your marriage for fulfilment. Staying committed despite the lack of happiness, communication and affection needs strength. Learning how you can stay committed to your marriage through the many distractions is the beginning of how to repair it.
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Module 5: Create Forward Movement in your Marriage
Doing nothing sometimes causes more damage. Learn how to take the initiative to move forward even if your spouse is at odds with you, un-cooperative and disinterested. Creating forward movement in your marriage will bring positive changes that are difficult to ignore and will bring new energy into your marriage.
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Module 6: When your Spouse is Having an Affair
Devastating to deal with, I know! But a situation that must be dealt with, regardless. Extramarital affairs and infidelity are the most common fallouts of disintegrating marriages. You will learn what to do when you find yourself in this situation and how to chart a path to become emotionally available to each other again.
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Module 7: How to Reconnect
With lack of communication, intimacy and happiness, reconnecting with each other is a long journey. But you cannot start to repair and rebuild your marriage
without reconnecting with your spouse. You will learn steps that you can begin to take – starting with small, meaningful gestures and working your way from there.
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Module 8: Rebuild the Partnership
While it’s ideal for both partners to commit and contribute equally for a successful partnership, this is not always the case. Learn the steps that you can use to rebuild your marriage and sustain it in the long term. This time you will be starting on a stronger foundation and with a better system in place.
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Module 9: Accept Responsibility for your Role
It takes two hands to clap! It’s highly unlikely that either partner is blameless in the disintegration of the marriage. When you take responsibility for your role, you also accept responsibility for putting the marriage back on track. You’re also less likely to make the same mistakes again. Learn how to do this without beating yourself up or going down the rabbit-hole of guilt.
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Module 10: Fortify your Marriage
The purpose of this program is for you to be able to create a system of relationship habits that will shift the momentum of your marriage. As you go through this program you will learn what you need to do to renew your marriage and how to emerge from this process better and stronger together.
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Module 11: Never Lose it Again
If you learn and apply the new ways, that this program teaches you, of relating to your spouse, you will avoid previous pitfalls and mistakes.
You will learn to transform your marriage with results that last a lifetime.
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It’s not about finding the ‘right’ person,
It’s about re-learning to love the person you’re with
You’re facing problems in your marriage, like, infidelity, lack of communication, financial problems, lack of sex, addictive behavior, narcissism, threat of divorce etc.
Your marriage is on the rocks, you want to save it and you’re wondering how to do it even if therapy and counselling have failed
Either one or both of you have turned your affections to other people
You’re willing to make the time and effort to apply what you learn in this program to transform your marriage
This Program is for You if…
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She has used her formal training and education with her intuitive healing abilities to help clients heal from all life's hurdles. Using various, unique tools in her 1:1 healing sessions and programs she’s helped repair and renew relationships, treat acute health conditions and facilitate financial breakthroughs.
Over 25 years of work has exposed Ajita to many experiences and learnings. She draws on these and shares them through her simple, yet profound teachings and courses to help thousands of people across the globe.
Ajita believes that the way to eradicate judgement is through self-discovery. Through the experiences of her guests on her soon to be released podcast – Love Not Judge – Ajita hopes to bring about awareness on how the world can become more accepting.
Ajita Shah is a spiritual healer, teacher and trained psychologist.