Marriage Reboot

A Breakthrough Program for your Marriage –

A time and cost-effective program

Involvement of both partners is not compulsory

The results will last you a lifetime

Bi-monthly live sessions to provide clarity and support

that works better than therapy!

All marriages go through cycles 

The euphoria of love fades after a few years and what you once found cute, now drives you nuts

People and activities outside the marriage start to become more attractive

At some point, one or both of you start wondering
“Did I marry the right person?”

Understand This

Now you’re wondering

Can I save my marriage?

Will the earlier level of passion, love and tenderness return?

How can I reclaim love and happiness in my marriage?

My spouse is so uncooperative – can I do this by myself?

My husband and I are in an amazing space right now and have been for a while. But it could have easily been otherwise…

You see, very early on in our marriage I had a miscarriage – my first, highly anticipated pregnancy! And this almost tore us apart… As if our own emotions weren’t difficult to deal with, we had to contend with toxic ‘in-laws dynamics’.

I drew on all my knowledge and theory as a psychologist and tried various ways to try and bridge the growing gap. But nothing worked…
If anything, we became more combative and distant…

In frustration, I decided to do something different. Something I hadn’t read in any textbook or self- help guide.
I decided to set aside our problems. Not ignore them, not pretend they didn’t exist, but just put them on the back burner for a while…

What if I told you that my marriage was almost destroyed?!

…I dropped all major expectations of what we should do or how we should be.

I took a step back from trying to force communication and gave my husband his space. I made small meaningful gestures without expecting anything in return.

And as if by magic our situation changed! My husband started reciprocating. He felt less threatened and grew calmer and more affectionate. We began connecting again – laughing and talking and sharing.

Most importantly, we were able to openly discuss the hurt and sadness we went through, resolve our differences and fall in love again!

What I did instead…

I was trying so hard to save my marriage

But none of the ‘wisdom’ out there did me any good. None of advice in self-help books worked. Nothing that I read or researched helped.
Moreover, there was no one to support or guide me as I struggled through this. I had to figure it out on my own. I had to find a way to make it work.
I had to combine my instinct with my intuition and draw on my knowledge to bring my husband and myself closer together.

To now help struggling marriages, I’ve put together a program

To help you reconnect with your spouse
To help you bring back love in your marriage

Unlike therapy, which may or may not work, this program is time and cost effective. The best part is that you can do it on your own – you don’t need a cooperative spouse to successfully complete this program. Chances are, they’ll join you once they see the changes and realize the benefits.

A word of caution though! This is NOT a quick-fix program. If my experience is anything to go by, you’re going to need a lot of patience and put in real time and effort to completely sort out the mess.

But what you will learn is to neutralize your problems, put into practice a system of relationship habits and restore your broken marriage.

You’re just one ‘YES’ away from a happy marriage!

These are the steps I take you through

Program Content

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Introduction:

I talk you through how to use this program effectively, how to get the most out of it, how to set intentions and most importantly,
how to stick with it through the enveloping conflict and negativity

Module 1: Where can you go from here

There is always hope! Create a vision for the future of your marriage by understanding how you got here and where you can go.

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Module 2: Commit to your Marriage

You have worked very hard on your relationship and marriage. Develop a strong and unshakable foundation on which to rebuild your marriage

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Module 3: Accept responsibility for your role

Step back from the blame game and gain a more balanced perspective of your own role and power in your marriage.

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Module 4: Love is the answer

Do you remember how much in love you and your spouse were at the beginning? Learn the steps to reclaim it

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Module 5: Never lose it again

Understand the why of your situation and what you can do to never repeat the patterns.

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Module 6: Create forward movement

Undo the past hurt and rejection and take steps to win your spouse back by becoming irresistible to them in every way.

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Module 7: Rebuild the partnership

The deep connection you shared was first diluted then perhaps severed by all the conflict. Learn how to reconnect and redevelop the partnership for an unbreakable bond.

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Module 8: Bring back the trust

Your heart was broken, your trust was shattered, how do you go on?
Here all your pain will be addressed and you will learn to forgive and move on to build an even stronger marriage.

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Module 9: Fortify your marriage

Re-establish foundational intimacy- the pillar of a strong and enjoyable marriage.
Learn to seal all the gaps that make your marriage vulnerable to inside and outside forces.

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Module 10: Fortify your Marriage

The purpose of this program is for you to be able to create a system of relationship habits that will shift the momentum of your marriage. As you go through this program you will learn what you need to do to renew your marriage and how to emerge from this process better and stronger together.

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Module 11: Never Lose it Again

If you learn and apply the new ways, that this program teaches you, of relating to your spouse, you will avoid previous pitfalls and mistakes.
You will learn to transform your marriage with results that last a lifetime.

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Every module will have practice questions/ workbooks provided along with meditations and other tools to reinforce the learning and develop self confidence and peace within.

It’s not about finding the ‘right’ person,
It’s about re-learning to love the person you’re with

You’re facing problems in your marriage, like, infidelity, lack of communication, financial problems, lack of sex, addictive behavior, narcissism, threat of divorce etc.

Your marriage is on the rocks, you want to save it and you’re wondering how to do it even if therapy and counselling have failed

Either one or both of you have turned your affections to other people

You’re willing to make the time and effort to apply what you learn in this program to transform your marriage

This Program is for You if…

Frequently Asked Questions

She has used her formal training and education with her intuitive healing abilities to help clients heal from all life's hurdles. Using various, unique tools in her 1:1 healing sessions and programs she’s helped repair and renew relationships, treat acute health conditions and facilitate financial breakthroughs.

Over 25 years of work has exposed Ajita to many experiences and learnings. She draws on these and shares them through her simple, yet profound teachings and courses to help thousands of people across the globe.

Ajita believes that the way to eradicate judgement is through self-discovery. Through the experiences of her guests on her soon to be released podcast – Love Not Judge – Ajita hopes to bring about awareness on how the world can become more accepting.

Ajita Shah is a spiritual healer, teacher and trained psychologist.

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